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How to Make Authentic Decisions: A 5-Step, Intuition-Based Process

Georgina Berbari
November 24, 2025
The Path to clarity, alignment, and self-trust.

A heart-centered approach to clarity, alignment, and self-trust.

Why Everyday Decisions Shape Our Spiritual Path

Have you ever noticed yourself spiraling in indecision? Weighing every option, playing out every scenario, and still, there’s no clear answer. The more you ruminate, the further clarity seems to drift. 

This is more than just modern-day stress. These moments of uncertainty touch something deeper—our sense of self, purpose, and connection to the web of life.

What if each decision were viewed as a thread in the larger tapestry of authentic spiritual evolution? This authenticity isn’t just a lofty ideal—it’s something built through small, everyday choices. 

Choosing truth over fear, clarity over ambiguity, heart over habit—that’s the path.

As founder Nanette V. Hucknall shares in A Practical Teaching, it's about knowing oneself:

“When you see your personality clearly, you begin to make decisions not from fear or desire, but from truth.”

The Missing Link: Your Inner Guide Knows the Way

Beneath the surface noise of the world—and the mind’s endless commentary—there is a quiet voice. Your Higher Self. 

It's not loud or demanding, but it's always there, gently guiding you toward growth, healing, and alignment.

When we connect with this inner compass, we tap into a deeper intelligence—one rooted in truth, love, and the full landscape of who we are becoming.

Staying connected to this incredible inner guide allows you to access the clearest vision of your potential,” says Hucknall. 

Still, tuning into intuition isn’t always easy. There must be sifting through the conditioning that tells us to always prioritize logic, to prove, calculate, and control. 

Intuition, by contrast, can feel abstract, slow, and even risky. As the HSY Intuition Script states:

“We prefer the certainty of the rational mind over the more abstract wisdom of intuition.”

This is why a structured practice centering discernment matters.

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A Five-Step Practice to Make Aligned Decisions

Here’s a simple, repeatable process to help you move from confusion to clarity—guided not just by your mind, but by your heart and Higher Self.

1. Get Neutral

Before any big (or small) decision, pause.

Bring yourself into a quiet, neutral, and supported place.

Create space for this neutrality. Sit somewhere without distractions. Breathe. Ground. The goal is to clear the emotional noise and return to a centered, supported state.

2. Open the Heart

Drop into your heart center. Let go of desired outcomes, fears, and attachments. This isn’t about “fixing” anything—it’s about listening deeply.

Let go of attachments and rest in the realm of your heart.

3. Consult the Mind (with Compassion)

Once the heart is open, invite the mind in—not to dominate, but to contribute. Let ideas and inspirations arise. Don’t force logic; simply notice what forms.

Allow compassionate choices and solutions to organically be revealed…

4. Align with Your Knowing

Notice what resonates. Where is the energy? What feels like truth—even if it’s surprising or mixed with fear? Trust the place inside you that simply knows.

Emotions may be mixed, conflicting, or surprising. Allow that. At the same time, rest in the place beyond all of that: a quiet knowing. 

5. Honor the Truth

Once clarity emerges, act on it. Honor the insight—even if it challenges your ego, others’ expectations, or old habits. That discomfort? It’s growth.

Celebrate any new clarities… even if they feel uncomfortable.

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Why Intuition Isn’t About Escaping Responsibility

One common myth is that intuitive or spiritually-rooted decision-making is just a way to bypass the hard stuff. But the truth is—it’s the opposite.

Following your intuition often requires more responsibility, courage, and presence.

It’s not about floating through life. It’s about living it fully—with your body, heart, and mind aligned in service of your deepest truths.

As Hucknall reminds  in Higher Self Yoga Book I:

“The Higher Self can help in all of your life’s problems—from the most mundane to the most profound.”

Whether you're choosing a job, navigating a relationship, or deciding what to eat for dinner, your Higher Self is available. You just have to ask—and listen.

Try It Yourself: Get the Free Intuition Workbook

Want to put this into practice?

Download the HSY Intuition Workbook, a free, beautifully designed guide to help you connect with your Higher Self.

Inside, you’ll find:

  • Journal prompts for decision-making
  • Visualizations to open your heart and mind
  • A repeatable practice you can use in everyday life

✨ Plus: Get access to HSY’s free Circle community, your home for intuitive tools, spiritual guidance, and heart-centered growth.

👉 Download the Intuition Workbook and take the first step toward more aligned, heart-led living.

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